Comments on: i’m sorry for this, but thanks for reading! http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/ learning how to wink... one attempted wink at a time... Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:05:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: velkr0 http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/comment-page-1/#comment-175 velkr0 Fri, 28 Jan 2005 03:20:19 +0000 http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/#comment-175 mark, no problem, i am glad we were able to pull it off given the circumstances and i just wanted to let you know that if you ever need a hand or have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me. thanks again, and sorry for the delay in getting back to you. and mom.. some very good points... it just going to take some more time to get used to, even though i think i already accustomed to it, i just need to work on estabilishing equilibrium again. mark, no problem, i am glad we were able to pull it off given the circumstances and i just wanted to let you know that if you ever need a hand or have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me. thanks again, and sorry for the delay in getting back to you.

and mom.. some very good points… it just going to take some more time to get used to, even though i think i already accustomed to it, i just need to work on estabilishing equilibrium again.

]]> By: mark http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/comment-page-1/#comment-173 mark Thu, 27 Jan 2005 14:29:46 +0000 http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/#comment-173 I just wanted to thank you joe I just wanted to thank you joe

]]> By: Wing Dreamer http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/comment-page-1/#comment-172 Wing Dreamer Thu, 27 Jan 2005 06:44:08 +0000 http://velkr0.org/2005/01/26/147/#comment-172 ..this is called office ettiquete..and yes it is sugar coated bullshit at times. Some people have these "manners" and hollow forms of expression in certain segments of society. A relationship with a friend, family member or someone close doesn't always require a "thanks" or "sorry" - it is a given. Business acquaintances and coworkers have not crossed the "familiarity line" and the distinction has to be in the manner of communication (office politics). It is odd that we humans are more polite to strangers than to those close to us - It takes a lot of energy to adapt to this office mentality because you are not accustom to that form of expression. You'll get used to it. I worked in a factory and when I made the transition to office I was told I had a factory mentality and that I better hone my office manners. In this world there are many, many, many real worlds. Don't sweat it too much. You have had a great transformation in your life. It is a shock to the system to work full time, take the bus to and from work, move across the country....shall I go on? .......You must have time for you, make the time, take the time. Do whatever is necessary to find a balance so that your energy increases....- don't give your precious energy away.......set your physical / emotional/ intellectual boundaries..........vitamin b12. ..this is called office ettiquete..and yes it is sugar coated bullshit at times. Some people have these “manners” and hollow forms of expression in certain segments of society. A relationship with a friend, family member or someone close doesn’t always require a “thanks” or “sorry” – it is a given. Business acquaintances and coworkers have not crossed the “familiarity line” and the distinction has to be in the manner of communication (office politics). It is odd that we humans are more polite to strangers than to those close to us – It takes a lot of energy to adapt to this office mentality because you are not accustom to that form of expression. You’ll get used to it. I worked in a factory and when I made the transition to office I was told I had a factory mentality and that I better hone my office manners.
In this world there are many, many, many real worlds. Don’t sweat it too much. You have had a great transformation in your life. It is a shock to the system to work full time, take the bus to and from work, move across the country….shall I go on? …….You must have time for you, make the time, take the time. Do whatever is necessary to find a balance so that your energy increases….- don’t give your precious energy away…….set your physical / emotional/ intellectual boundaries……….vitamin b12.

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